WHY YOU SHOULDN’T DO BUSINESS
WITH FAMILY
Life is a teacher, the more we live, the higher our chances
of learning. The few years I spent on this earth are good enough to let me know
that the biggest downfall of a man begins when he starts a business with
family. For the purpose of this piece
permit me to define family as – Anyone who is closely knitted to another
individual over a long period of time, and has access to the individuals public
and private life.
Many promising business have gone down the drain over the
years because a naïve individual decided to bring FAMILY into the
business.
Quickly I will give you few reasons why you should NEVER
allow family near your business.
1.
ABSENCE OF PROFESSIONALISM: Except you want to remain
a small player in your business, you can never really achieve professionalism
in a business that family is involved in. The term FAMILIARITY BREEDS COMTEMPT
is better demonstrated in this regard. A
wife who addresses her husband as ‘HONEY’ at home may find it extremely difficult,
if not impossible to refer to the same man as ‘BOSS’ or ‘SIR’ in the business
environment. Any attempt for the Man who is the CEO of the company to correct
his wife who happens to be the PRO or hold a lesser position in the company may
lead to unnecessary friction on the home front.
2.
ACCOUNTABILITY ISSUES: Working with or for
family can become very tiring when the issue of accountability arises. A
younger brother who works with or for his older brother in a business may not
be fully accountable because he believes his brother should TRUST him with the
accounts. Searching for clarification from the younger brother may spring up
issues of trust within the family; it becomes more complex when both
individuals are from a polygamous family.
3.
PENALITIES: Intertwined with accountability is
PENALITY. When laws are broken, or there happens to be a breach of contract,
delivering a verdict on the accused or defaulter can indeed be a herculean
task; especially in the African setting. How can a Man lock up his OWN BLOOD
BROTHER in jail because he stole #50,000.? Yet the people forget that they
business itself may not even be worth up to that.
4.
FAVORATISM: This is very common in many African
businesses; upon retirement a man puts his first son in charge as the CEO, when
there are better qualified MD’s that could effectively take over. This action
in itself brings inner conflict in the organization, dividing the company into
Pro New CEO, and team LOYAL to OLD MD’s. After a short while, the company folds
up because of disunity. Having family in business can prevent the top
organization from making the right decisions at times.
5.
SECURITY RISK:
90% of robbers always confess that they have an inside man that gives
them information about their target. Who best to serve as an informant than
your “Family”? We all know that the average African man is not happy about his
brothers progress, so rather than work to increase his brother’s wealth, he is
eager to bring the brother ‘DOWN’. Having a family know about your accounts,
business deals, and expenditure is the fastest way to allow men of the
underworld into your home.
Conclusively the business world is a serious one, and to
succeed, you must be able to draw the line between your BUSINESS and your
FAMILY. Understand that having a family
is not a guarantee for building a successful business empire. Search for
individuals with the best skills and qualifications to enhance your business.
