The LordOfSwagg Show: WHAT IS WRONG WITH US? NIGERIAN PASTORS & PRIVATE ...

The LordOfSwagg Show: WHAT IS WRONG WITH US? NIGERIAN PASTORS & PRIVATE ...: WHAT IS WRONG WITH US? NIGERIAN PASTORS & PRIVATE JET? After all said and done; the TRUTH is only a reflection of our viewpoint or should ...

WHAT IS WRONG WITH US? NIGERIAN PASTORS & PRIVATE JET?

WHAT IS WRONG WITH US? NIGERIAN PASTORS & PRIVATE JET?

After all said and done; the TRUTH is only a reflection of our viewpoint or should I say point of view:
I will speak as a Nigerian, a Child of God and a Human being. Here is my submission:
• God is The Owner of The Church; Pastors, Bishops, Go’s and any other title are just men privilege with the task of managing it.- They MUST never forget that.
• True Leaders are people that give to the society not take from it… Whether in the form of tithe, offerings, taxes or levies.
• The house of God is NOT a company or the Government; it is a place of comfort and true love.
• In a country like ours where are political leaders have no clue to what leadership is about, our religious leaders should brace up to the challenge and show them that true leadership is about selflessness and community.
• Trying to form “CLASS” is simply worldly and materialistic as far as I am concerned.
• It’s a shame for our religious leaders to live in affluence when majority of their members live in abject poverty… It’s an insult to humanity.
• Elijah as a friend of the King helped the Israel nation in defeating her enemy; religious leaders can also help our own government by providing jobs, free education or other some other stuffs to the Nigerian society.
• It is wrong and absurd that a church would want to be Prosperous on its own & not concerned about the general development of the country.
• How do we expect the corrupt political leaders to be accountable to us, when the Religious leaders are not?
• Pastors should be more than just spiritual leaders… they should set the right path for everyone to follow.
Conclusively… Let’s not forget that it s not everyone that was called, that was finally chosen. Many are just using the “CHURCH” to defraud the innocent; a wise philosopher once said: “Religion Is the Opium of the people” maybe he thought of Nigeria
Yeah yeah… Hate me or Love me… The Truth is BITTER… IamLordOfSwagg

THE AFRICAN HOME Dating! Marriage! & Family! (part 2)

Continued from Part 1:

TIME IS A NON-NEGOTIABLE VALUE:

Don’t know the amount of relationship books you’ve read in time past, but know this for certain… The place of TIME cannot be substituted for anything in a relationship. The essence of relationship is to understand an individual properly. From the outside, you may have a hunch about someone’s personality or character, but until you get closer to such person, you may never know for certain who that person is or can be? Never be in a hurry to conclude about a person because as humans we can be very deceptive (especially guyz*I’m an exception sha, ask Yvonne Nelson*).

The Europeans we are trying to copy hardly have a functioning relationship because they are too quick to love. Remember that the quicker you fall in love, the quicker it is to also fall out of love.

NOT EVERY RELATIONSHIP MUST LEAD TO MARRIAGE:

Yes! I’m still sain and I aint a flirt like R.kelly… This is an erroneous notion that most sharp badt guyz have used and are still using in taking advantage of ladies. A relationship is like attending secondary school, at the end of the day is NOT everybody that must enter the UNIVERSITY; some can go to colleges of education, polytechnics or other training institutions.

Dating as it is is a process of getting to understand somebody better… It’s a time to know if you are compatible with the individual you claim to love/like as the case may be. If that person turns out to be who you feel is perfect for you, Congrats n Thank your Stars. If the reverse is the case, be glad and grateful that you discovered the true persona of that person on time; definitely, there would be unique things about yourself that you must have discovered in the time you were together. The fact that you don’t fit with the person doesn’t mean the person is badt, it simply means that that person is not the RIGHT one for you. (Or would you rather get married to somebody that would treat you like trash, just because you’ve dated that person for years?)

Someone might quickly ask… So where is the place of LOVE when dating? Love has and will continually be complex term for those that spend most times watching Nigeria movies (no offence to NollyWood o!) ;  but it’s simple. The fact that you choose to get close to someone is a sign that you can love that person. Love comes in different form. Some people love immediately; however for others, it takes a period of time, anyway, no matter the kind of person you are when it comes to love, TIME is essence if any relationship must last.

Dating is an essential process that must not be traded with anything else, yet we must be matured to keep an open mind to it. An open mind simply means you are hoping for the best, but preparing for the worst.

to be continued...

The LordOfSwagg Show: THE AFRICAN HOME (Dating! Marriage! & Family!)

The LordOfSwagg Show: THE AFRICAN HOME (Dating! Marriage! & Family!): THE AFRICAN HOME Dating! Marriage! & Family! I love you; you love me, the next thing… We are in love! Who tell you? Recently, I was ...

THE AFRICAN HOME (Dating! Marriage! & Family!)

THE AFRICAN HOME

Dating! Marriage! & Family!

I love you; you love me, the next thing… We are in love! Who tell you? Recently, I was chatting with a girl who told me that she is not ready to be with any guy that was not ready for marriage. I asked her, how old are you? She replied 18 and immediately I shook my head in dismay.

Our world is, moving so fast and we are gradually losing our ability to use our common sense, especially in relationships. How can you know a guy or girl that is ready to settle down without spending time with such a person? Haven’t you noticed that it’s the girls who seem to be most careful in their selection that turns out to be in a non-functioning relationship? This is because the more you think you know about relationship the less you truly know.

Yes, I’ve not forgotten my key topic which is the African Home, but we must begin to correct foundational errors if we are to hope for a better home in the future.

As humans we are created to need somebody, that's why YOU are not alone in this world, hence the term RELATIONSHIP. The kind of relationship we have with our family, friends, colleagues, neighbors and even enemies determine how happy we would be in life. That's why at every point in time; we must review our relationships to know which is beneficial to us or parasitic to our well being.

That said; let’s talk about the everyday “Boy like Girl, Girl like Boy” relationship (for now sha). There are certain things we need to straighten up if we are to enjoy a lasting and fulfilled relationship.

YOUR DREAM GUY/GIRL IS NOT REAL:

Cinderella, Pocahontas, Barbie, and Snow White… bla bla blah… these are all fairytales. Don't always expect your story to start or end up like theirs. Face the real life and live in the present. There are certain relationships that are never planned for, some even start with both parties antagonizing each other, only for them to later realize that that is their means of showing affection. Learn to appreciate people for who they are. An individual may have so many attributes you don’t like; but sometimes, the one little thing he is good at may just be the key to your lifetime happiness. The dream person may be perfect in the dream, but in reality, you'd discover that his/her perfection makes you feel imperfect in all you do.  It's good to aim for perfection in all you do, but never forget that no one is perfect but God.

 To be continued...